May 30
May 30
wow.
that photo was kinda creepy. sorry for leaving it as the 1st post for the past 2 weeks or so.
My friend has a boyfriend who was staying at her place. things seemed to be going well, but one day when she went through his skype history (because that’s the kind of non-trusting relationship which they have built up, due to his past history) she found messages of him talking to another girl, saying how he was going to break up with my friend and get together with the this other girl. etc. etc.any normal person would kick this guy out immediately. but my friend is quite dependent on guys. and for some reason after she confronted him about it, they became closer. or something. i don’t know. as bizarre as that sounds they are definately back together. but i can definitely guarantee you, this isn’t the last of it. he will continue doing what he does, because that’s how he is.
so…does this mean that the only way to get a girl you really like to like you even more is to emotionally damage them in some way?
that is the way the world works.
and (as wayne says) it fucking sucks.
but i believe in karma. and i no longer want to believe that acting like a dick all the time is going to get you what you want. or even if it does, it might not be the best and only way to do things.
i don’t think i’ve been treating people with much respect or shown enough love to people this past year (in accordance with my new years resolution), and i think lately its been coming back to bite me in the butt.
people i have met have shown me that you can be a really awesome human being, and still get what you want.
so here’s to yet another outlook on life:
slightly depressed from the real world, but always optimistic and upbeat.
Your friend needs a reality check. I’ve been in her situation though but in the end I decided to end my relationship. Some people don’t believe they deserve better. Or they find it’s hard getting back out there after being attached to another person for so long. After you come out of a relationship, you’re supposed to revert to who you were before you became a couple, but in reality you’re left feeling thoroughly emotionally permeated. Then again, since we don’t have all the facts here and your friend and her boyfriend will only be the two people who will ever know, in confronting him, they might have dealt with any issues between the two of them which caused him to contemplate breaking up with your friend in the first place. Perhaps emotionally damaging a girl you like is a way to get them to like you… BUT you’re not likely to keep her in the long-term. Generally, most girls are looking to be repaired, saved, not consistently abused. Just my two cents worth of crap.
that guy sux.
FULL-STOP.